Article of the Day Archive

Article of the Day Archive

A Collection of the Best Articles and Podcasts on Infidelity from Experts and People Who’ve Been There.

What I Learned From Being Cheated On by Finn Lang

If Your Spouse Wants Out, Do This, Becky Whetstone, Ph.D.

How to Leave Without Hurting Your Partner, Becky Whetstone, Ph.D.

Why Do You Stay in an Unhappy Marriage: Love or Guilt?

Guilt, cognitive dissonance, and emotional dependency versus love.

Why Do You Stay in an Unhappy Marriage: Love or Guilt?

https://medium.com/heart-affairs/why-do-you-stay-in-an-unhappy-marriage-love-or-guilt-30ba4aa26ca8

Why Do You Stay in an Unhappy Marriage: Love or Guilt?

The Hell of Being Broken Up With, Marie Murphy, Ph.D.*

*For those who don’t know, Marie Murphy, Ph.D. is a life coach making a name for herself as THE specialist for helping people in affairs decide what to do about their situation. She has now organized all her podcasts by subject. This is an excellent podcast, so go take a look!

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Writer Emily Mark divorced after her husband had two affairs. There IS life after being cheated on!

Life Update; Following the Flow of Emotions and Allowing Them to Be

On living and being.

Life Update; Following the Flow of Emotions and Allowing Them to Be

https://medium.com/@markemilee/life-update-following-the-flow-of-emotions-and-allowing-them-to-be-498508899a07

Life Update; Following the Flow of Emotions and Allowing Them to Be

Theresa Winn shares how she made the decision after she’d been cheated on.

Should You Stay or Go After There’s Been Infidelity?

… and the huge clarifying question that helped me.

Should You Stay or Go After There’s Been Infidelity?

https://medium.com/unfaithful-perspectives-on-the-third-party/should-you-stay-or-go-after-theres-been-infidelity-4a74e4591263

Should You Stay or Go After There’s Been Infidelity?

This one’s totally self-explanatory (and also the truth!)

Who Had an Affair or Who Files For Divorce Reveals Nothing.

Placing fault in marriage and divorce is a fool’s game.

Who Had an Affair or Who Files For Divorce Reveals Nothing.

https://medium.com/p/c70436bc61d1

Who Had an Affair or Who Files For Divorce Reveals Nothing.

Been ghosted by a married person who swore they’d leave their spouse to be with you? Marie Murphy, Ph.D. has some excellent advice.

What do you do if your affair partner leaves you for the wrong reasons?

Your affair partner said they were going to leave their marriage so the two of you could be together. And then they changed their mind.

What do you do if your affair partner leaves you for the wrong reasons?

https://medium.com/the-scarlett-letter/what-do-you-do-if-your-affair-partner-leaves-you-for-the-wrong-reasons-9865d2ab44bd

What do you do if your affair partner leaves you for the wrong reasons?

I’m featuring this one because, after all I’ve read about dead bedrooms? It’s spot on.

What’s the Worst Advice You’ve Received About Reviving a Dead Bedroom?

Let me tell you 22 ways that don’t work.

What’s the Worst Advice You’ve Received About Reviving a Dead Bedroom?

https://medium.com/hello-love/whats-the-worst-advice-you-ve-received-about-reviving-a-dead-bedroom-3cddb0ff627b

What’s the Worst Advice You’ve Received About Reviving a Dead Bedroom?

Jonice Webb, Ph.D. has a BIG part of the answer to why people have emotional affairs.

The Role of Emotional Neglect in Emotional Affairs

An emotional affair can do tremendous damage to a marriage, and emotional neglect can make it more likely to happen. There are 4 steps you can take to "affair-proof" your marriage.

The Role of Emotional Neglect in Emotional Affairs

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/childhood-emotional-neglect/202408/the-role-of-emotional-neglect-in-emotional-affairs

The Role of Emotional Neglect in Emotional Affairs

Has Your Affectionless Marriage Run its Course?

If you are in an affectionless marriage, you and your partner need to deeply consider alternatives.

Has Your Affectionless Marriage Run its Course?

https://www.drpsychmom.com/if-you-cant-bring-yourself-to-be-affectionate-towards-your-spouse-let-them-find-someone-who-will-be/

Has Your Affectionless Marriage Run its Course?