December 13, 2023
This is a lovely piece. But, your partner has to actually be present and willing to do the same for you. If they aren’t … especially if you hung around waiting for nine years and they never showed up … or if you’re in a marriage with a professional taker who’s not interested in a true collaboration with you … It’s just time to give up on them and move on. What’s the point of giving so long to someone who’s not there?